Each time you tap on a point you say a Reminder Phrase. This can be any word or short phrase which keeps you focused on the issue.

The phrase is typically a word or phrase which appears in the Setup Statement.

The table below gives examples of Setup Statements and corresponding possible Reminder Phrases:

Setup StatementReminder Phrase
“Even though I have this problem,
I completely accept myself.”
“This problem”
“Even though I’m angry about what happened,
I completely accept myself.”
“Angry”
“Even though I’m embarrassed,
I completely accept myself.”
“Embarrassed”
“Even though I feel all this guilt,
I completely accept myself.”
“This guilt”
“Even though she said I was ugly,
I completely accept myself.”
“Said I was ugly”
“Even though my shoulder hurts like hell,
I completely accept myself.”
“Shoulder”
“Even though I really want a ciggie,
I completely accept myself.”
“Really want a ciggie”
“Even though I feel like I’ve got the world on my shoulders, I completely accept myself.”“World on my shoulders”